The boy is 13 years old.
Like, I have a WHOLE TEENAGER living in my house now. It’s so crazy to fathom.
How did I manage to keep this kid alive for so long? My plants barely survive.
Ya’ll ever have those moments? Where you see your kid grow up, but you don’t really see it happening. You just look up one day and be like “who is this grown ass man in my kitchen?!”
Sorry. I’m having a moment.
Hey there! It’s been a while since I’ve written on here.
According to the analytics on this page, seems you guys keep coming back, hoping for something new. I’m thankful someone is still checking up on me.
So, I guess I should fill you in on what’s been going on the past year or so.
The boy is 11.
Every year, I get super sentimental and this year was no different.
I often stay awake preparing to wake him up in a special way or with a surprise and this year he was in for the greatest surprise of his young life.
I received an email the other day from the boy’s school. It was the secretary asking me for permission to use this photograph from the spelling bee the school was participating in.
Of course I said hell yes!
I was so proud of him because just a few months prior, he came home one day upset and frustrated. Slammed his book bag down and stormed off to his room. I approached him, asking him what was the matter. He replied “I’m a horrible speller!” I asked him why he thought so and he pulled out a spelling test from school with red markings all over it. At the bottom: 4/20.
I also remember a couple of weeks after that, he burst into my office proudly waving his spelling test. But this time a perfect score. We went to eat at his favorite restaurant that evening to celebrate.
That night I received this email, I told him how proud I was of him. How much he had grown from this kid who questioned his abilities and potential because someone with a red pen decided that they knew best what he should know right now. That now he not only had the courage to compete, but landed a spot in the news as a result of his courage. He just gave me an “awww, mom!” and happily ate dinner. But I was one proud mama.
I was always told by my grandmother that pennies will eventually add up to a dollar, if you just find the value in each one. I celebrate these small moments with him, because one day I know they will add up to some really awesome an amazing.
Just like this kid.
Photo courtesy of Vision 13 Photography
This will forever be my favorite photo of us.
Today, the boy turns 9. This is also my 9th anniversary of being his mother.
It hasn’t been an easy road, but I’m glad I’m on it with him. He has taught me so much about myself, about how to be more patient (a lesson I am still learning). This year traveling with him has taught me so much about myself as a person and as a mother. Learning that there is so much more I need to learn and grow and provide him. So much more that I want to teach him as well.
Here’s to a new revolution around the sun with this guy. We are celebrating our anniversary in Thailand and lots of plans and surprises for him in store.